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Getting Your Siblings to Help With Caregiving

When it comes to eldercare, you do not want to have to do everything by yourself. Even though a single adult child might become the primary caregiver, it does not mean that they should do all the work. If you want to share the burdens of caregiving and eldercare, it is a good idea to involve any siblings that you may have. It is a good idea to get your siblings involved as quickly as possible, before a pattern develops where you are the sole person who takes care of the caregiving duties. If you do not know how to approach the subject or just want some suggestions, we have those for you.

 Do Not Expect Total Equality

When it comes to the division of tasks related to caregiving, chances are that you will never achieve total equality. This is quite alright, provided that every party has a manageable lifestyle. Especially if you have different schedules throughout the day, it is more important that you help alleviate some of the stress that your siblings might feel rather than to focus on complete equality.

 Be Specific About What You Want

Rather than approaching your siblings with a general appeal for help in relates to eldercare, it is a good idea to have some idea of what tasks you want them to relieve you of. Perhaps you want someone who can help with meal preparation, grocery shopping, or taking your parent to their physical therapy appointments. Regardless of what you might like to see, make sure to address it.

 Split Up Tasks

You want to split up the work between the available siblings. It is a good idea to divide chores by expertise rather than doing so arbitrarily. Perhaps the person who has good business acumen takes care of the legal issues while the medical appointments are handled by someone with experience in health issues. In order to offer a break for either party, it might be a good idea to consider a housekeeper to help with the eldercare assistance.

 Call The Meeting

Make sure that you involve all the siblings in the discussion, even those siblings that are coming from out of town. During this meeting, you want to make sure that you have agenda for discussion in writing. This is going to tell you everything that you need to know and ensures that you are not missing certain key points that you want to address. Make sure that you write down (in detail) everything that you are currently doing, including transportation, home obligations, and health care obligations.

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